What to wear to the opera is a frequently asked question among first-time attendees. As a Gentleman Within reader, you may one day find yourself invited to an event such as this, if you haven’t already.And when that day finally arrives, it’s beneficial to have an idea of what to wear for that special occasion.
I myself have not attended the opera, but I’d be dishonest if I said I wasn’t at least intrigued. And so this edition of Stylin’ Out features what I’d wear for an evening at the opera.
WHAT TO WEAR TO THE OPERA
The opera has its origins in Italy over 400 years ago. Although it has evolved over the past 4 centuries, an evening at the opera remains a special occasion, and it would be wise to treat it as such. The question of what to wear to the opera continues to pose a challenge to many men.
Surprisingly, the opera evokes an image of exaggerated style. Perhaps a velvet tuxedo with tails, top hat, and a monocle comes to mind. I think Hollywood has a little something to do with it. That said, while the opera may seem like a black tie event, many opera houses worldwide want you to know that you can be yourself and dress comfortably for that special night out. In fact, The Met in NYC doesn’t even have a dress code.
In today’s era, everything has become more casual, and I believe you can dress up and still be comfortable in your everyday jeans.
THE SEASON
Fall is in full swing here in the Northeastern United States. The colors around us are changing, the temperatures are slowly but surely dropping, and the layers are coming out in full force. The look I chose is perfect for temperatures from the upper 50s to the mid-70s.
THE STYLE
The style I chose is refined with hints of daring. The blazer, necktie, oxford shoes, lapel flower, pocket square, and dark wash denim make it a smart look. The blazer passes for casual because, considering textures, the tweed and suede elbow patches lower the formality a few notches. The socks also add a touch of playfulness to the fall ensemble.
Overall, it’s a smart casual look. The addition of a necktie increases the formality level. Go necktie-free, and it’s more casual.
This is a style that can work for any modern-day gentleman.
A fall ensemble.
THE LOCATION
I had the pleasure of photographing at the Academy of Vocal Arts (AVA) here in the beautiful Rittenhouse neighborhood of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.
The AVA is a premier institution for training young artists as international opera soloists and is home to artists from across the United States and around the globe. In addition to being the only tuition-free institution dedicated exclusively to the study of voice, the AVA hosts operatic performances throughout the year.
To learn more about the 2017-2018 AVA Opera Season, you can find that information here.
THE LOOK
For what to wear to the opera, first, if it’s a date, you’ll definitely want to dress it up a bit. If attending with a friend, colleague, or sibling, you can dress it down. Ultimately, there are no strict rules, and you should wear whatever you feel most comfortable in. This doesn’t mean dressing sloppily, either.
It’s all about the details with this look. I’ve got texture with the tweed blazer. I’ve got a subtle pocket square that blends in with the jacket, yet still has a pop from the star pattern. A navy necktie is layered over a light mint-colored oxford cloth button-down (OCBD) which harmoniously blends with the rest of the look.
Finally, the addition of a red lapel flower is a bold statement that adds richness to the overall look without screaming out. I typically wear a lapel flower when I want to add a finishing touch to an outfit. It’s always reserved for a special night out, such as an evening at the opera.
THE POWER OF DARK WASH DENIM
I want to talk about dark wash denim for a moment. I’ve always stated that the dark wash jean is one of the most versatile pieces in men’s clothing, and when you’ve found a pair with the right fit and wash, there are countless styling opportunities.
Though wearing jeans to an event like the opera may bother some traditionalists, it’s a move worth considering, especially in today’s era where dress codes have become more relaxed overall. You don’t have to sacrifice comfort to look good.
For the opera, I’d recommend keeping your outfit on the darker end of the spectrum. Dark is sleek and more appropriate for evening wear.
And since I’d prioritize comfort, I’d skip the tie. But if you’re a tie person, go ahead…you’ll look fantastic.
Can’t forget the wristwear. I’d wear my best watch; it is the opera, after all.
In the end, I went for a more approachable style. A look that any man can pull off with a little confidence. It might not be dressed to the nines, but it’s a casual, refined look that can go a long way.
THE END
That’s it for Stylin’ Out Vol. 5. I hope you enjoyed reading and got some inspiration on what to wear to the opera (when that day finally arrives).
Stylishly yours,
-K
All photos are courtesy of Erica Torres, Founder of Erica Torres Photography.
